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49// Is This Behavior Normal? Developmental Milestones & Signs of ADHD & Autism in Uniquely Wired Children

Season 2 Episode 49

Does your child's behavior feel unpredictable—like you're walking on eggshells wondering when the next meltdown will hit?

What if the "challenging behaviors" you're seeing aren't defiance—but your child's uniquely wired brain crying out for tools you don't know how to give them yet?

In this powerful conversation, professional counselor and parent coach Jami Kirkbride returns to help us understand what it means to parent a "uniquely wired" child—whether that's ADHD, autism, sensory processing challenges, or simply knowing your child needs "extra" support. Jami walks us through the often-overlooked signs (especially in girls), the critical first steps to take when you suspect something's different, and practical tools you can implement today to support your child's regulation and success. This episode will help you move from overwhelmed confusion to confident advocacy with a clear roadmap forward.


In This Episode You'll Learn:

  • The real signs of ADHD beyond the "bouncing boy" stereotype—and why girls are so often overlooked
  • Why executive functioning struggles (transitions, task initiation, emotional regulation) might be the key to understanding your child
  • Practical tools you can start using TODAY: visual timers, calm care kits, movement breaks, and sensory input

Connect with Jami Kirkbride

  • Website: CalmConnectionParenting.org
  • Instagram: @calmconnectionparenting
  • Free Resource: Take the Emotional Forecast Quiz to understand what your child's emotions are telling you and identify your next best step
  • Coaching Program: https://www.calmconnectionparent.com/ – Support for overwhelmed parents of highly sensitive, emotional, or intense kids


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