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32 How to Talk to your Child When You Experience Unexpected Loss: How to Heal, Fight Back, and Speak Life in the Wake of the Charlie Kirk Assassination

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  • Are you struggling to understand why you're grieving so deeply for someone you've never met personally?
  • Do you feel angry that you have to explain violence and tragedy to your children when they should be innocent?
  • Are you wondering how to help your family process unexpected loss while maintaining their sense of safety and faith?


Episode Overview

In this raw episode, I address the profound impact of Charlie Kirk's tragic death on our Christian community and share practical guidance for supporting yourself and your children through unexpected tragedy. I explore the concept of "symbolic loss" and offer faith-based strategies for processing grief while maintaining hope. I share specific approaches for children of different ages and developmental needs, emphasizing the importance of allowing various forms of emotional expression - including my own raw experience of having to explain to my 5-year-old why mommy and daddy were crying.


Scripture References:

  • Exodus 14 - Moses encourages the Israelites not to fear
  • Galatians 6:9 - "Let us not become weary in doing good..."
  • 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 - Paul's words about being hard pressed but not crushed

Practical Tools:

  • Drawing supplies, playdough, blocks for non-verbal emotional expression
  • Visual supports for children on the autism spectrum
  • Progressive muscle relaxation techniques for children with ADHD
  • Routine maintenance strategies during crisis

Professional Note: If you or your family are experiencing depression or other significant psychological needs, please seek professional clinical support.



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